How to Initiate Goals of Care Discussions With Family
?Initiating a goals of care discussion with family members or professionals ensures that your wishes for daily living and eventual care needs are planned and executed according to your wishes. While many adults set these conversations aside until a health diagnosis or other situation occurs, having goals of care discussions early in life allows more effective planning. Why Have Goals of Care Discussions With Family If you are an aging parent who expects your adult children to care for you when the time comes, these discussions are critical. In my meetings with aging adults, many parents say their children will care for them. However, few have asked the question. My advice is to ask early and to be practical. Sometimes, individuals and families fail to initiate conversations because they fear others will not meet their needs. Adult children invested in building a career, married, and have children may have little time to care for you. Some parents do not want to burden children b